Easter 2013

This Easter, we dyed eggs and spent a beautiful day at the park hunting candy eggs with the Ayres, Malones, Wolfs, and Randolph families.

Dave one afternoon joined Jessica for a little contraband Easter candy under cover. 

Jessica's Easter basket wasn't overflowing with presents and candy Sunday morning.  The only mention of the Easter bunny was to say he was leaving a basket, because I like to emphasize the religious reasons for Easter. So I bought some new Christian movies: Ben Hur & The Ten Commandments, Prince of Egypt, and The Miracle Maker (a 60's claymation of the life of Christ, which was pretty good for kids.)

For religious remembrances, I hung up a picture of Christ for every day in Holy Week. We invited the Bonneys and Ayres families over for Monday's Family Home Evening. We acted out the triumphal entry (kids in a vest riding adults who crawled over blankets and plastic palm fronds) and the cleansing of the Jewish temple (knocking over little stools with dimes on them.) The kids thought it was great fun. Dave gave the lesson of the Easter symbols in plastic eggs, and we made resurrection buns for a treat.

On Good Friday we hosted a "Jerusalem Dinner". Not a Passover meal, but a meal like Christ would have eaten. We sat on the floor, eating food from the first century Jewish culture: cucumbers, grapes, dates and plain yogurt, lentil soup, fish, honey and flatbread, and the conversation dish: beef tongue.

The Albert and Young families brought food, but it was the Davids family that had a frozen beef tongue from having their cow butchered, and thought this a perfect meal to use it. They brought it made up in the Jewish tradition: rough outside peeled off, sliced, then slow cooked with leeks and carrots, and eaten topped with a salty anchovie and caper relish. I ate a few bites; it was savory, but the idea of it was too much for me to take second helpings. The missionaries however, despite a 15-minute tongue discussion, (i.e., how a whole beef tongue is the shape and size of a sneaker,) were clueless to the fact that they were eating tongue until after they ate several helpings!  You can see the glass dish of tongue at the top of the picture on the right.
 

And I decided to spend my birthday money on table decorations for Easter Sunday. {I wanted the tablescape to be turquoise, but tablecloth selection at stores these days is pretty bleak. And the only fabric at 60-72" wide is made for sofas, not spring tableaus. So I bought a 10-foot, banquet-sized white tablecloth, and topped it with purple fabric leftover from Jessica's birthday. I choose spring silk flowers and a birdcage for the centerpiece. (I shunned the summer roses and daisies for native daffodils, tulips, dogwood and cherry blossoms, and pussy willows.)} 

And voila! It was definitely bright, cheerful, and symbolic of new life with the nest of eggs and twigs laid in a cross. I know I could've made this a simpler production. But what does it say to Jessica when we invite friends over to eat the same everyday food on paper plates, buffet-style? This is not just any party; I want to make Easter feel very different, because it's as important to Christians as Christmas.

This year was extra pretty, and the food even matched the tableware to a degree: white dishes, purple and yellow cakes (thanks to the Wights), yellow ducky rolls, purple-dyed hard-boiled eggs, and a record-setting 10-layer jello (Jared! you're the man!).

And the best part of course was eating it with our new Lynchburg friends. We have really enjoyed getting to know so many great families at church. Over dinner we had fun chatting with the Wights, Gentrys, and Penrods.  Thanks for your friendship, and making our celebration of the Lord's Resurrection special!

The sacrament service was uplifting; we heard a talk with the theme of "What does the Resurrection mean to (various people)?". A double octet sang a beautiful, part a capella "Behold the Wounds in Jesus' Hands", and our choir sang a very moving version of "He is Risen", accompanied by me. I practiced a lot, because I wanted to add what I could to the spirit of the day. I injured my arm a little practicing it, the notes being very loud and complex, but it was worth it. Happy Easter!

Family Home Evening 2012: Religion and Family Fun

January - Nephi Sails to America

Our religious lessons for Jessica have leaned toward bible stories (Noah, the creation, the Nativity of Jesus), so I decided it was time for a Book of Mormon story. We focused on the ship and Liahona (compass from God) parts of Nephi's story.

Week 1:

We sang "The Iron Rod", and Dave read the story from the Illustrated Book of Mormon Scripture book. Then we all colored pages for a mini-book of Nephi's travels that I found on the internet. Last we coached Jessica through a high-energy scavenger hunt drawn on liahona-shaped clues. When the drawing was good enough, she would recognize it and run to it (like, her bed) shouting "OH! MATCH!" The last spot had a plate of brownies, and we ended by singing "Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam".

Week 2:

We borrowed the Living Scripture cartoon "Journey to the Promised Land" and kinda translated it into 2 year-old language. Then we had carrot cake and played ping pong, courtesy of Danny & Karen (thanks for the Christmas present, guys!) Dave won, as usual. After a few tries with the paddle, Jessica got bonked on the head and was happy to just be a snacking spectator.

Week 3:

We sang "Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam", and watched the same movie from last week. We stripped Jessica down to a diaper for one of her favorite activities: painting. We water-colored 3 scenes from the Nephi story, then ended with rice crispie "golden plates". We had to break it off when a neighbor kid came over to get math help from Dave.

Week 4:

I borrowed the Nephi flannel board cutouts from the church building and we retold the story again. Because repetition is the toddler way. 

Then we played a game I spent way too much time drawing, which I called "Promised (Candy) Land". We used colored cards from our Candy Land game, but I substituted cards with story highlights for the candy destination cards. Jessica is getting better at taking turns and moving to the correct color. (My baby is getting so grown-up!)

February - Loving Others and Sharing

Toddlers are notoriously selfish, and Jessica is no exception. And since Valentine's Day is in February, we focused on sharing in our February family nights.

Week 1:

We sang “As I Have Loved You” and “When the Family Gets Together” for opening and closing songs. Dave read the illustrated story of Jesus visiting the Americas & blessing the children. We (Dave and I) made Valentines to decorate house (while Jessica was too hyper), and ate candy hearts.

Week 2:

We didn't do anything (as seems to be our pattern of only managing to do 3 out of 4 Monday family nights.) 

Week 3:
We had the Randolphs over for a lesson on the miracle of Jesus feeding the 5,000 and the boy sharing his 5 loaves and 2 fishes (tuna cans, in our case.) Joshua had no choice, as he was the only boy there to play the boy with the food.

We played the hide-and-pass-the-ring-on-the-string-while-the-person-in-middle-guesses-in-whose-fist-it's-in game. We also watched a darling video about kids sharing sandwiches. Then my idea to encourage sharing was to have everyone bring an ingredient for banana splits and discuss whether or not we should share in a big bowl. But the older kids were one step ahead, and were only too eager to dump their part in so they could get a scoop of the final product.

Week 4:

We webcammed with Grandma and Grandpa Robertson. We sang "Love is Spoken Here", had a lesson on loving our family, and played Don’t Eat Pete! They played a duet of “Give Said the Little Stream” on their banjo & harmonica).

March - Creation of the World and Gardening

The first week Dave read the illustrated scripture story of the creation. Then I explained it on the wipe board in calendar terms, which Jessica understands due to her kid calendar in her room. We roasted s'mores for a treat. We sang "Give Said the Little Stream" and "My Heavenly Father Loves Me (Whenever I hear the song of a bird...)".

Week two we borrowed cut-outs from the church to tell the creation story. And we assembled a digital puzzle of the Garden of Eden. We sang "The Prophet Said to Plant a Garden" and "My Heavenly Father Loves Me", neither of which Jessica was there for, as she was on timeout for hitting and spilling water.

Then we planted tomato seeds, (all of which came up, but only 1 of which lived to grow in the garden.) Then we ate cookies 'n' cream ice cream, since Oreo cookies look like dirt (it's a stretch, but it tasted good.)

The third week we watched creation videos on Youtube, and sang "Give Said the Little Stream" and "Popcorn Popping". Then we spent lots of time turning over garden soil in preparation for April planting. For a treat we cut animal and plant shapes out of store-bought chocolate chip cookie dough, which didn't turn out, melting into circular cookies.

April - Easter

We spent every week learning about Christ's final week and crucifixion, which I will write about in a separate blog post. Christ's death is one of Jessica's favorite stories now.

May - Service and Ammon (Book of Mormon story)

Four families in our church congregation had babies this spring, so we made treats and visited them. We also learned about Ammon's defending of the king's sheep. So our theme didn't turn out too baa-aa-aa-aad.

First week we watched our Ammon cartoon, and made Sheep cupcakes with coconut. The next week Dave read the picture story of Ammon to Jessica. I used my new loaf tubes to make a flower-shaped slice we could turn into a sheep. We delivered the heart-shaped loaf and a jar of honey to the Youngs.

The third week we made peanut butter teddy bears and delivered them to the Greers. We eventually made dinner for the Gentrys, who had the last baby in the bunch.

June: Gratitude for Our Bodies

This theme was partly inspired by my new interest in health, and my desire to get Jessica potty-trained. I Netflixed a National Geographic movie Inside the Living Body. We also got a movie about bodies from the library. And with our body chart book, we had some lessons on health and anatomy. We focused on the story of Shadrak, Meschak, and Abednego. We used chalk to trace our bodies on the sidewalk, including one of Smokey the cat.

July: Understanding the Sacrament 

Jessica had been too demanding, playful, and messy during church. So Dave and I did some lessons on the importance of taking the sacrament and reverence. We decided she was old enough to stop playing with toys and getting snacks or drinks during these first 20 minutes of our Sunday meetings.

The first week we played "church". We had a podium, and took turns weating the tie and announcing prayers, songs, and the sacrament. The other 2 in the audience did the singing and praying. Jessica thought it was awesome. She even copied us when we told to say "Welcome to church", "The opening song will be...", etc. Dave hammed it up by asking for a vote for Jessica to be nursery class president. Then we let Jessica pick pictures of Jesus to put in sheet protectors in a folder to take to church. It also had a little chart of 6 things we do in church before she gets to play with toys. It totally worked too. Now she flips through her pictures and understands the rule about no toys, drawing, or treats until after the sacrament.

The next week we watched Jessica's favorite short video of the crucifixion: To This End Was I Born. Then we went out to the garage and cut up some puzzles I made from religious pictures months ago. (I think I'm going to really like our scroll saw.) I cut, and Dave & Jessica assembled and bagged them, so she have more religious-themed toys in church.

I'll update this blog with more pictures as we have them.

Family Nights: November and December

Week 1

I restarted planning family nights in November. We studied thankfulness all month, and used the opportunity to teach Jessica how to pray. She could repeat one word at a time after us. We used these handy rings I cut out, which she loved, and we pointed to each one as we practiced thanking God. 

After we made chocolate turkeys.

We also sang "Thanks to Our Father, and "Count Your Many Blessings". After Jessica went to bed, Dave and I worked on cleaning out the office, again.

Week 2
The next week we invited the Zobell family to join us. Carla is bilingual, Brian is from Wyoming, and their  daughter Brianna is Jessica's age, so we have several things in common. We sang "My Heavenly Father Loves Me" and Dave read D&C 59:15-21 for the adults' benefit, while the little girls stuffed a cornucopia with plastic play food.

15 And inasmuch as ye do these things with thanksgiving, with cheerful hearts and countenances, not with much laughter, for this is sin, but with a glad heart and a cheerful countenance—

 16 Verily I say, that inasmuch as ye do this, the fulness of the earth is yours, the beasts of the field and the fowls of the air, and that which climbeth upon the trees and walketh upon the earth;

 17 Yea, and the herb, and the good things which come of the earth, whether for food or for raiment, or for houses, or for barns, or for orchards, or for gardens, or for vineyards;

 18 Yea, all things which come of the earth, in the season thereof, are made for the benefit and the use of man, both to please the eye and to gladden the heart;

 19 Yea, for food and for raiment, for taste and for smell, to strengthen the body and to enliven the soul.

 20 And it pleaseth God that he hath given all these things unto man; for unto this end were they made to be used, with judgment, not to excess, neither by extortion.

 21 And in nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things, and obey not his commandments.

Next we made "Thankful Trees" by writing things we were thankful for on leaves, and gluing them on a paper. 

Jessica earned the nickname "Bluebeard" from scribbling on her chin.

We closed with edible cornucopias made of sugar cones, dried fruit, nuts, and fruit candy.

Week 3
After Halloween, I had told Jessica trick-or-treating was over: no more Halloween. She looked crestfallen. So I quickly helped her look forward to Thanksgiving. We read books about falling leaves, Pilgrims and Indians; watched Charlie Brown Thanksgiving, Charlie Brown Mayflower Voyagers, and clips of Pocahontas; and I showed her pictures of her cousins who were coming to visit.

So on the third Monday of November we learned about the first Thanksgiving. Dave and I sang "For Health and Strength" in a round. Then we made construction paper hats of a pilgrim (Dave), an Indian (me) and a turkey (Jessica, who else?) .

Jessica shows she learned what a turkey says in this video

(in which, I now realize, her first answer to "What are you?" was "I'n daween (I'm drawing)" not "I'm Dory". My bad.):

Week 4
We found a wonderful tall cheap fir tree at our local grocery store. It fit in the back of my PT.

(Jessica got our old 3-foot, condo-sized fake tree with sparkly plastic ornaments, for her room. We had already decorated when her cousins were at our house for Thanksgiving.)

A 99-cent pine air freshener made our big tree smell delicious. It was our tallest tree yet, 9 feet, after we cut about 2 feet off. It's best feature was when it dried up, the needles almost all stayed on. Merry Christmas!

In December we only had 2 Monday nights available for family time, which we probably just played with Jessica's plastic Nativity set. And the rest of the month Jessica and I during the day watched The Nativity Story movie, The Animated Nativity, Joy to the World, and read lots of Nativity books. Her favorite characters of Christmas were "reindeer!" and "donkey. fas! (fast)". The 3rd Monday we were packing for Utah, and the last Monday we flew home to Virginia.

Next year, the plan is January: Nephi; February: , March: prophets (prep for conference); April: Easter/Resurrection.